Yep!  EVERYONE NEEDS A COACH!  You can’t see you.  I can’t see me.  We both need mirrors in order to see ourselves.  Each relationship is a mirror, showing us parts of ourselves that we might not notice or experience, were it not for the relationship.  Likewise, the Life Coach is training to listen and observe carefully and without judgment, to assist you to connect the dots of your various relationships and experiences you are having of yourself in your life.  The Life Coach assists you in seeing your “blind spots”–we all have them…like that place we can’t see behind our head, or to our left or right side while driving.  We have LOTS of blind spots.

All of life is about what we are willing and able to see.  There is no one reality.  Reality is about what we can see.  The Life Coach assists in creating clear vision and expanded perspective.  Most dysfunction in our lives comes from a stuck state of one kind or another.  The Coach mentors you through your stuckness to take action.  By taking action on our awareness, we then achieve wisdom.  The most effective Life Coach is also a wisdom teacher.  That’s what I do.

So often, we make declarations and decisions in our lives, then start to second-guess ourselves.

We might decide to end a relationship with someone, realizing that he or she is “not good for me” or simply “not working for me” in terms of our needs and perhaps even the needs of the other person.

But…we had been a “habit” with one another. But…I do miss him. But…she was really such a good sport or a good cook or great in bed… So the “buts” increase, as we are second-guessing ourselves.

This is what I know from experience: trust your first instincts. Stop second-guessing yourself. That first flash of “wisdom” or that “still small voice” of intuitive insight is usually right on the money!

Give yourself time to get used to the new situation. Don’t allow yourself to cave into your cravings and/or that addictive attachment to the “habit” of what was… Trust your own wisdom that urged you to break loose and move on.

No matter what…take time to get used to the NEW HABIT, before turning around to return to the old.

Enjoy your decision and stick to it. Honor your own best advice!

With love and blessings
Sheila

Hot of the press from Landmark Education is a wonderful article by Landmark Forum Leader, Cathy Elliott: Relationships: Alive with Possibility

As a Life Coach, what do you think predominates most of the conversations I have with clients and students day in and day out??? RELATIONSHIPS! Of course! SOOOO…enjoy Cathy’s wisdom:

Here’s something from a piece I read in Harper’s Magazine by Laura Kipnis called “The Domestic Gulag.” The author offers a brief sample of answers to the simple question: “What can’t you do because you’re in a couple?” (This information, she points out, is all absolutely true; nothing was invented. Nothing needed to be.)

You can’t leave the house without saying where you’re going. You can’t not say what time you’ll return. You can’t go out when the other person feels like staying home. You can’t go out just to go out, because you can’t not be considerate of the other person’s worries about where you are, or their natural insecurities that you’re not where you should be, or about where you could be instead. You can’t leave your (pick one) books, tissues, shoes, makeup, mail, work, sewing stuff …lying around the house. …You can’t amass more knickknacks than the other person finds tolerable—likewise sports paraphernalia. You can’t leave the dishes for later, wash the dishes badly, not use soap, drink straight from the container, make crumbs without wiping them up (now, not later), or load the dishwasher according to the method that seems most sensible to you. … You can’t talk on the phone when they’re in the room without them commenting on the conversation, or trying to talk to you at the same time. You can’t read without them starting to talk, and you’re not allowed to read when they’re talking to you. You can’t use the “wrong tone of voice,” and you can’t deny the wrong-tone-of-voice accusation when it’s made. … You can’t ask for help and then criticize the mode of help, or reject it. …You can’t express inappropriate irony about something the other person takes seriously. …You can’t not be supportive, even when the mate does something insupportable. … You may not criticize the other person’s driving, signaling, or lane-changing habits. etc., etc., etc.

Lots of our behavior in relationships is driven by complaint. How powerful are a person’s actions when those actions are the product of complaint? It’s doubtful we know any truly powerful people whose actions are shaped and driven by complaint. Complaint weakens our actions and our thoughts and our feelings. “The possibilities that exist between two people, or among a group of people, are a kind of alchemy. They are the most interesting thing in life,” says contemporary poet, Adrienne Rich. When relationships are driven by complaint or by keeping track of who did what, or the need to be right, to control, they likely possess a dreary, bickering kind of drama, but cease to be interesting. The wonderful world of human possibilities ceases to reverberate through them.”

At some point in our relationships with our partners, our coworkers, family members, it seems we have the thought that we’re not fully satisfied. Even if there are long stretches where things are great, at some juncture we find ourselves disappointed about something, or feel that something is missing—that our particular relationship(s) are not all we’d hoped for. And once those thoughts make their way to consciousness, a refrain is sure to follow. Dissatisfaction invariably follows satisfaction, because what we so often do with satisfaction is try to hold on to it. Satisfaction held on to, however, becomes mechanical—the antithesis of satisfaction. In William Blake’s words, “He who binds to himself a joy/Does the winged life destroy.” Satisfaction can’t be held on to like a thing, it can only be created. To create something requires a space in which to create, and when that space isn’t there, most likely it’s because we’re holding on to something incomplete from the past.

Completing things comes down to a matter of getting beyond the “yeah buts” and “how ’bouts” and the “but ifs,” “onlys,” and “whens” about how things “should” or “need” to look a particular way. Completing things frees us up. It doesn’t automatically imply that everything is going to be just dandy in the future, but it does mean that we can address whatever there is to address in our present-day relationships, instead of dramatizing whatever might have been incomplete from the past. When something is complete it is as it is, there is not a need for something else. It’s as it is without being obscured by the way it should be. The should-bes, ought-to-bes, the way we want it to be—our ideals or comparisons with other things, other people, other times—all kind of drop away. There isn’t a sense that things “must” be different. It might be pleasant or preferable to have things be other than they are, but there isn’t an attachment to having something else, or a need for some part of it not to be there. The point is that something can be missing like a possibility vs. “missing” as if it is wrong or bad. When something’s missing as a possibility, there’s not a sense of insufficiency or inadequacy—there’s an allowing for and an acceptance of the way it is. What’s missing here doesn’t exist like a thing, but rather as a possibility for something—and with that comes a freedom.

Each of us has experienced moments in our lives when we are fully alive—when we have no wish for it to be different, better, or more. We have no disappointment, no comparison with ideals, no sense that it is not what we worked for. We feel no protective or defensive urge—have no desire to hold on, to store up, to save. Such moments are perfect in themselves. We experience them as being complete, and know a space within ourselves where such moments can be generated. It’s a shift or a state change, from being a character in a story to being the space in which the stories occurs—the author, as it were, consciously, freely. It is a transformation—a contextual shift from the content in our lives being organized around getting satisfied—to an experience of being satisfied.

And because relationships exist in language (not just as a set of feelings or accumulation of experiences, for example), there’s a malleability, a plasticity, a can-be moved-around-ness about them. When we walk around dissatisfied, thinking the other person should be different in one way or another, or say something like “they never really understood us,” or that “their expectations were unwarranted,” or “their idiosyncrasies were annoying,” what is really happening is that we are saying that. And the other person is likely saying, in some manner or another, what’s so for them. In all cases, it’s people speaking to themselves, speaking to others, or other people speaking about other people speaking to each other—it’s all occurring in language. When we shift the locus of our dissatisfaction and complaints from something “out there” to which language can only refer, to something that is located “in” language, what’s possible shifts.

It’s not necessarily a fact that we’ll be satisfied if such-and-such happens in a relationship, or doesn’t happen. Being satisfied is not a feeling later labeled with the word “satisfaction”; rather it is a commitment, a stand we’re taking for that possibility. That stand becomes the “chute” down which what we’re “up to” can be realized. When that happens, the conditions and circumstances for our relationships begin to reorder and realign themselves. How we see and hear others and how they see and hear us is transformed. This is what it’s all about—to be satisfied before anything happens.”

I do hope you have enjoyed Cathy’s wisdom and guidance!

Shared with love and blessings
Sheila

I’M ALONE TODAY BUT NOT WITHOUT LOVE IN MY LIFE

Today is Valentine’s Day – the day for lovers, a reminder of how important the “affairs of the heart” are for us. My friend and colleague, Criss Itterman, has just published a fabulous and insightful article on www.SoulsCodes.com. The article is about Sacred Passion and Uncondition Love. Do yourself a big favor, and go take a look and drink in the wisdom and poetry of Criss’s work!

To add to her gifts, I’m sharing my edited version of something I saw online the other day. LOVE is one of those over-worked, over-used, and mid-understood words, isn’t it? Well…ponder some of these thoughts about what LOVE IS…

Love means…
trust, acceptance, respect and appreciation – those are the 4 biggies.

Love is…
the willingness to grow and be there for someone, while also realizing that the goal is not to ‘arrive’ somewhere in the future, but to be fully present and appreciative of where you are right now.

Love is…
an action and very often a choice. And the goal is not to ‘fall in love,’ but to ‘grow in love,’ so you can become more of who you are, not less.

Love…
should never make you feel like you are ‘less than’, but ‘more than’.  It should feel expansive, not constrictive and restrictive.

Love is…
about looking for and seeing the best in someone, even at times when they may not be able to see it for themselves.

Love…
and fear can’t exist together, so I think love is about letting go of fear and learning to trust.

And here’s the biggest thing I’ve learned about Love…
you can only give Love to someone else, when you’ve learned how to give it to yourself.

When you’ve learned to really trust, respect and be honest with yourself, only then can you offer those same things to someone else.

Only then can you make really wise choices about the people you choose to be with in your life, because those choices are based in trust, respect and honesty with yourself, and not based in fear.

I don’t know that earlier in my life, I was completely conscious of the choices I made about partners BEFORE I made them and why. In part because I hadn’t taken the time to really know myself and figure out what I wanted and why. 

So that’s my definition for Love. And the best part is I realize that every single experience I’ve had has allowed me to finally learn all these things about myself, who I am and what Love is to me.

Now that I can look back on every experience I’ve had with love and appreciation for what it taught me, I can look at the present and the future with only love in my heart.

And ya know, that just really feels good.

I’d love to know what Love is to you…

SO ON THIS DAY…

MY VALENTINE’S WISH FOR YOU IS…

whatever you do and whoever you’re with, you treat yourself like the best Valentine in the world… because you are.

And that’s what Love is really all about… loving and appreciating who you are, just as you are,
so you can share your wonderful self with someone else.

This is the year to give yourself the love you deserve and to embrace the fact that there is nobody in the world quite like YOU!

Close your eyes and make a commitment to give and receive as much love as possible this year, starting today.

I am sending you love and blessings,

Sheila

Stop! Before you read any further, I will tell you what this IS and what this is NOT:

This is NOT a lecture, in which I am pontificating on what is “right and wrong”…

This IS a confession from me to you, as a woman who has been “the other woman” and my own expression of compassion and love for you, as a man or a woman who “cheats” on your spouse, but I know deep inside that you are really “cheating” on yourself…

If you want to hear what I have to say, which is written with love and compassion, read on…

In this letter, I’m sharing with you what I have learned in my personal and professional experiences about what it means to be “in love” with another human being: it means to be so connected with this other person, so inside the love for them, that concerns about yourself and your own needs are superseded by your desire to give to, to take care of, and to contribute to the needs of the other. When we are in an energetic and emotional state of being “in love” with someone else, we are literally incapable of looking at another person for our own needs to be met: we are in an energetic, spiritual, and emotional condition of enfoldment, wrapped inside a “love” which says “I cannot see another person in the way I see my beloved, because there is nothing else I need or want”.

For several years, I loved a man who had been married twice, and admitted to me that he had really never been “in love”. Perhaps he loved his wives in the way he loved his sisters or good friends, with some affection, respect, appreciation, and even some lust or passion from time to time. But what I know about this man is that he had a need and/or wanted to have the companionship of a domestic partner at all times. He needed and/or wanted the safety of being with a woman he could trust. What I also know about this man is that he had a deeply intense and passionate nature, but seemed (at least with me) to pull away from those intense feelings when they would emerge.

What I observed in this man with whom I had shared my heart and my body for years: he enjoyed receiving my passion; he craved the pleasure which I give him, wrapped in my passion and love for him. He knew that I loved him and expressed that he “treasured” the way I expressed my passion for him. However, he was not able to openly reciprocate similar emotional intensity. It was almost as if it was painful for him to open his heart to me, to admit any feelings beyond friendly affection and/or lust. I’m willing to accept the possibility that he just didn’t have any deep feelings for me at all, and that simple fact caused him to feel uncomfortable in the presence of my passion for him. We may never know… But what was clear through his actions was that he was in this long-term “affair” with me for what it gave to him – not for what he could give to me.

Throughout the years, I gathered information and understanding about this man: he was married to a woman he described as his “best friend” and that they “worked well” in their domestic partnership. I observed that there were significant advantages for him to share his financial assets with his wife, and she with him. I understood that having financial stability and domestic tranquility was important to him. Conclusion: he lived life in the context of “what’s in it for me?”

Other aspects of my so-called lover were that he often engaged with cyber-sex in order to “connect” with stimuli which would assist him in “getting off” when horny. He admitted to his habit of “hitting on” women, in order to experience a momentary “high” or “rush” in the excitement, giving him the experience of being alive and vital.

Once I was able to step outside the fog of my own addiction to him, I was also able to see more clearly that this man whom I loved but who could not love me was an addict. He was addicted to stimuli that turned him on: it was all about what others could do for him.

Having been an “addict” to things like shopping, sex, and work, I quickly recognized an addict when I saw it: we addicts find anything and everything to fill up the empty spaces, to distract us from the pain of uncertainty and the feelings of emptiness that are heightened by living a life which is characterized by what’s in it for me… In our blind frenzied search for more stimulation, for “fill me up” experiences, for more things and outward distractions from feelings we have that are uncomfortable and/or desires we have that are unfulfilled, our addictions increase and the intensity of them grows. The more any of us looks to other people for affirmation and/or attention, to the acquisition of things to validate our self-worth, for the attainment of trophies and accolades for proof that we are valuable, okay, and even sexy, our addictions expand and intensify.

Perhaps I had been participating in my own self-made illusion of love and passion, fueling my own addictions in the process. During the several years of sexual encounters, I had the illusion that I was “in love” with this man and that that love which I felt for him would be enough to sustain me, despite having the experience that he did not or could not reciprocate my love in the way in which I was offering it to him. However, I would often break off the “affair” when I had reached a tipping point of my own feelings of loneliness and emptiness in the exchange. I often complained that ours was a one-way relationship; it was not a balanced two-way exchange of emotion and generosity.

No matter how many times I would break things off, complaining about the one-way street, he would come back to me in the guise that “I want to try harder” or “I promise it will be two-way babe!”…Nonetheless, it would quickly devolve into the one-way street once again: He didn’t “get it” that when any of us lock ourselves up in a self-imposed prison of one-way relationships, we have locked out that divine connection which comes from a two-way flow of energy and generous intentions. (You could see it as an extreme example of the “EGO” getting in the way of ecstasy–”Edging God Out” is what the EGO does!) That two-way open and loving relationship is what creates real excitement, passion, and satisfaction.

During my last sexual encounter with him, I stepped back and once again observed myself giving, giving, giving… And once again I observed him taking, taking, taking. I experienced myself as the purveyor of pleasure and he was the happy recipient. However, once he had walked out my door, the profound realization that came to me was sad, very sad for me: I wasn’t sorry to see him leave my home…I didn’t miss him…I felt empty and unsatisfied I felt unseen, unheard, and yet again sexually and emotionally incomplete, since it was rarely if ever his practice to ensure my having an orgasm. (During my long and loving marriage, my beloved husband would never have imagined leaving our marital bed without my being totally satisfied!)

As I reflected back on this last encounter, I stepped back from myself and asked: “what the hell is this!?!? This is no lover! I may be his lover, but he is not my lover!?” I marveled at the extent to which my love for him had blinded me to my own needs… Even more to the point of this letter, I felt like I’d been hit between the eyes with the reality that what we were doing together was a dead-end street: it was a fragmented energy; it was not a two-way street. Dead-end….Or…Deadened…

After he left, I began to think about energy: everything is energy. Thoughts are energy.

When he goes home to his wife, how can there be a totally free-flowing energy of openness and sharing? He’s just been with me and he has something to hide! He cannot be totally open with his wife, because he has something inside that he cannot share. There has to be some kind of shame or guilt that creeps into his relationship with his wife. And…I have become a part of that!

As I thought of my own role, my own participation in his self-made prison and the limitations he is placing on his intimate relationship with his wife, I began to recoil at my own capacity for duplicity and secrecy. I began to realize the damage I was also doing to my own energetic system, my own sense of integrity, my own inner world of self-love and wholeness.

I began to realize that the very prison he was creating for himself had also become mine:

I was not in a relationship which allowed me to love freely, which allowed for the divine free-flow of energy. Ours had not been a two-way street: it had not been what I like to call “sacred reciprocity”. I had been fooling myself to think it ever was!

Looking at the harsh reality of the years of frustration and confusion, in which I experienced agonizing restraints and inaccessibility time after time, month after month, year after year, the picture became clearer and clearer to me: Here I was, crawling in the desert like a thirsty traveler, and there he was standing nearby with the flask of water in his hand, but refusing to give me any of his water to drink…

If I just flip this “harsh reality” for me, and see it as a mirror image of his own reality: as he was holding back, not allowing for the free-flow of energy and delicious passionate exchange, he was also not allowing for the free and ecstatic sharing of pure unconditional love! He had been cheating himself of the pleasure that comes to each of us when we know we have given another human being joy, have given another human being the “water” of life’s precious vitality, called love. In holding back from me, and also holding back from his wife, he was also “cheating” on himself!

My love for this man had become a gift to myself: it opened my mind and my heart to the plight of all men and women who are trapped in a prison of their own making: unable to liberate themselves from a fear of being truly intimate with their life partners. This self-imposed prison is painful: I’ve witnessed it.

In this open letter, I am inviting you men and women who are currently cheating on your spouses to consider the extent to which you are really cheating on yourselves: consider the possibility that you could be experiencing a bliss and a pleasure beyond measure, if you would only allow yourself to totally unleash your passionate self with your life partner, to open your heart to him/her, to share everything with him/her…even your most secret fantasies!

Allow yourselves to be totally vulnerable, to feel all those “painful” feelings of fear and nakedness…emotional nakedness—but along with this vulnerability is included the ecstasy of true intimacy, true transparency, true giving and receiving without barriers, without resistance, without restraints!

Allow yourself to give your spouse all the excitement and juiciness you have been inviting from others in your life – give your partner whatever your deepest longings have been and what it is you have been seeking from others! In other words, whatever it is that you have wanted to receive (attention, passion, unconditional acceptance), give it away to your spouse!

Open yourself to your partner. Allow him/her in to your heart. Look at your spouse with new eyes and ask yourself: “what can I do for her today?…how can I make his day more joyful?” Look at your spouse with the ongoing question of what YOU can do for him/her, rather than what he/she can do for YOU! Give yourself away with no holds barred, and know that you will also be giving to yourself, in the process. Do it! NOW!

I want to share the SMILE & MOVE video message as a reminder of everything good coaching is about, AND…what Laura Moritz’ and my new book The Winning Connection is also about. I wish I had created this video message myself, but I didn’t. It’s great! Enjoy!

In the upcoming book, “Wake Up Women! BE Happy, Healthy & Wealthy”, the chapter I have contributed to this wonderful collection of wisdom and golden nuggets from coaches is entitled “Let it Be!”  I recently watched a YouTube video of Tony Melendez entitled “Let it Be!”  You owe it to yourself to watch this:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GF9wo9sVn2c

You want to be inspired?  You want to “get” what Life Coaches like Sheila Pearl are all about?

Watch this video and then tell me: what about your life doesn’t work?  what about your life are you complaining about, that you can’t imagine doing something about to make it work?

How does your faith in God, your faith in yourself, your faith in your possibilities lift you up each and every day?

Watch this video, and then talk to me–let me know how it grabs you!

With love,

Sheila

YOU HAVEN’T MET ME YET…WHAT’S IT LIKE?

Before the Fall season begins and I get crazy busy and can’t do this again, I want to give you an opportunity to meet me–either in person or on the phone.

Did you know that most Life Coaching takes place on the phone?

Did you know that I have clients in 12 states and 5 countries, most of whom I have never SEEN?

Soooo…it doesn’t matter where you are.  And…I am often on the phone as early as 6am and as late a midnight.  It’s one of the advantages of being over 60–I don’t need as much sleep, apparently!  When I was 35, I craved 9 hours a night. 

Here’s the incentives I am offering:

A 30-minute complimentary coaching call for starters.  That way, you can meet me, get a sense of how I work and we can establish a rapport as well as a plan of action.

For the month of August: a 50% discount on phone coachings:

      Instead of $120 per hour = $60 per hour

IF….you purchase 4 hours of coaching before Aug. 15; you may use those 4 hours any way you choose, in a 45-day period of time from when we begin.

For the month of August, a 33% discount on in-office coaching:

       Instead of $150 for each in-office coaching = $100

If…you pay in advance for 4 in-office coachings, which you may use any way you choose, within a 60-day period of time, from when we begin.

By taking advantage of this Summer Special Incentive for Life Coaching, you will be giving yourself a gift of good health, a jumpstart for emotional fitness for your Fall season.

Call me:  201-303-5990

The title of the article in the Hudson Valley Life Magazine is “Pearls of Wisdom”

                      www.hvlifeonline.com

It’s nice when you’ve lived long enough to have earned the status of “wise woman”…  In this article, the writer refers to “The Holy Woman of the Hudson Valley”–that’s me!  How does one get that reputation?  Well…”holy” isn’t what you may think.  To me, “holy” is another way of saying that something or someone has depth to it; in order to have “depth” and be willing to constantly go deeper and deeper, one discovers all the nooks and cranies of a person, a situation or a book.

“Holy books” are books filled with depth: depths of thought, meaning, and experience.

“Holy people” are people whose lives are characterized by taking risks, falling down, surviving difficult obstacles, learning from life’s experiences and challenges.

Sooo…having lived 66+ years to date, I think I qualify:  I’ve taken lots and lots of risks, continue to do so, don’t take the safe road, am constantly seeking to grow and stretch as a human being, and am unafraid to admit my faults and short-falls, am excited about new opportunities in life, as long as I have breath.

A great spiritual teacher and one of my husband’s mentors was Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel; he described “holiness” as “going deep” and the opposite of holiness as “superficial”. 

So for me, being dubbed the “Holy Woman of the Hudson Valley” is a great compliment: some people out there have acknowledged that I am a woman of depth, vulnerability, a seeker of wisdom, and lifelong learner, and a human being who is constantly passionate about life in all its aspects–the physical, the emotional and the spiritual. 

Could you describe yourself as “holy”?  And if not, why not?  Would you like to be?  Would you like some guidance on living you life more deeply and with a sense of deep inner satisfaction?  To me, that’s what living a “holy” life is all about.

Let’s talk!

Sheila

Keynote and Motivational Speaker, Sheila Pearl, has just begun the journey!  Life Coach Sheila is about to jump way outside of the box and is launching her new career as Keynote and Motivational Speaker.

The WAKE UP WOMEN book is almost here!  Life Coach Sheila Pearl is an excited co-author in this unprecidented collection of guidance on living a happy, healthy and wealthy life.  This book “WAKE UP WOMEN BE HAPPY HEALTHY & WEALTHY” is co-authored by over 50 coaches, doctors, entrepreneurs, and spiritual teachers from all over the world; in this one collection is a virtual treasure chest of “golden nuggets” of wisdom, tips on living effectively and joyfully, creating abundance, living in the NOW…from over 50 different perspectives, shared in stories that are personal and life-affirming.  This is a WOW! for our times, folks!  Really!

Go to www.wuwbestseller.com to get your free gifts, to explore your own options for being a co-author in the next “WAKE UP WOMEN” book, and to order your books, if you don’t get them directly from me or other co-authors in your midst.

Every day, I am forming new alliances with wise, intuitive, and powerful women.  Among the most amazing women who are part of my life are Laura Moritz, co-founder and President of the National Women’s In Network (NWIN) and Carol Ann Malizia, Chiropractor and Holistic Practitioner, as well as being one of the most amazing public speakers I have yet heard!  I am truly privileged to have these two amazing women as friends and partners in the various endeavors in which we are collectively and individually dedicated.  With Laura, I have co-authored “The Winning Connection”, soon to be released.  With Carol Ann, we are dedicated to transforming women’s health and wellbeing, and are working on ways to use our skills and talents in a team-effort to motivate and inspire women in the Hudson Valley and beyond. 

Upcoming Events in which I will be either signing books and/or speaking on the topic “LOOKING FOR THE GIFT”–the major thrust of my story in the WAKE UP WOMEN book, are being created as I write this entry.  So keep coming back to this site to check on the latest schedule:

Wednesday November 13 - 6:30pm    CHIROPRACTICE HEALTH CENTER, Newburgh

           go to www.chcnewburgh.com for directions and further information

Wednesday, November 19 - 6-9pm      National Women’s In Network, Central Valley

          go to www.nationalwomensinnetwork.com for details and directions to restaurant

During the next few months, I will be travelling to Florida, California, Minnesota, Oregon, and beyond–the itinerary is expanding every day.  So keep looking here for details, so we can see one another!

Blessings and Love

Sheila